It makes me sad for the same reason it makes me sad that it's OK for folks to pressure me into using WhatsApp or Discord, but not for me to ask for folks to use Signal or Matrix. That it's OK for folks to tell me I need to use Word or Windows, but not for me to ask for patience with using LibreOffice on Linux. That I get made fun of for Zoom having bugs on Linux, or for suggesting Jitsi when we hit our hour- long limit.