There's this social phenomenon that happens to me, that I've never really understood.
The gist is that people ask me for advice, I give them advice, they follow half that advice, and then get very angry when not following the other half of that advice results in the exact outcome I told them it would, and then ask for more advice but preface it with "but don't say [thing I already told them]"
and ... I just don't get it?
Like, "help me learn to do this thing, but don't make me learn anything new or do anything hard" is impossible.
I'm being vague, I should give examples.