@kaia The obvious best choice is someone who can be both. :blobcat-comfy:

Like my gf. First she's like "I'm into makeup and fashion and my favourite colour is pink and I love flowers" and five minutes later she's gorging on Jollibee (fastfood) and sends me messages like: "Honey, your cat has such a fat belly... I want roasted cat :blobcat-drool2: "

Love her to bits.

(no lewd btw this is wholesome posting)