If only women vote then the map looks a bit like this, but do tell me how "no no no this isn't teh mens fault."
We can _also_ "blame" a variety of other groups if we want to get detailed. There are a bunch of ways to cut this (based on the few exit polls we have that ask the question, just at queer vs. non-queer groups is almost hilarious).
But men, you aren't off the hook here.