@Darbzilla @GolfCartLady Ppl will always talk but it's fedi. Eventually ppl get bored. I get talked about constantly. I've had strangers come at me over it and say just delightful things. I know as soon as someone gets close to one of my personal dramaniggers, ppl stop talking to me.
It's my personal belief that if ppl listen to gossip about you, they aren't worth your time.
Best advice, stay. Changing servers doesn't make ppl disappear. Don't participate or perpetuate the gossip. Hold your head high. Ignore the ones that intend you harm and just be Darb. Have fun. The best part is you will meet wonderful ppl that you never knew even existed.