@ins0mniak to be clear, i don't have a problem with "tell the truth", or going to therapy if necessary, but the "you must have high income" and "i want long lasting love" don't go together. if high income is a requirement, that means she'd breakup if you lose that source of income. That cannot be long lasting love.

Worst thing about her is that she probably doesn't understand why her approach to relationship is contradictory and therfor cannot tell the truth herself in this regard.

looking for financial security in a relationship is fine, but please don't pretend it's love