If you are reading this and you are a young woman looking for a relationship then my best advise when you come across a man and you discover that he is into hookup culture, open relationships or he is really open about his sex life or his sexual fantasies/fetishes... abort mission.

Abort. Abort. Abort.

This man will never respect your boundaries because he has a different idea about where boundaries are. He will not understand when you attempt to draw a line. He will charm you in if you show interest, he will drag your standards down to his level which is very loose. He will involve you in his fetishes and get off on it. He will make it seem fun, exciting, a source of amusement and draw you in slowly. He will start small, then escalate it. He will have sex with you if you let him. It's not worth it.