You’re a highly intelligent, successful man. You’re a good dude. There are millions of beautiful women out there who would be absolutely fixated on you *if they met you.*

All you have to do is meet them. If you were my son, I’d tell you this: Never let the same girl break your heart twice. It’s fine to have some fun with an old lust, but don’t expose any vulnerabilities or let her have a second opportunity hurt you.

Good luck out there. Have peace within your soul. Love yourself.