The main issue with this IMO is the fact that in the last 100/150 years the role of the woman was redefined (rightly so, because the "traditional" woman role is unrealistic and unsustainable today, unless you are down to redefine society and economy as a whole, which is also unrealistic) but the traditional role of the man kept being the same, so it slowly became irrelevant.
I think a good solution would be to redefine the role of the man as one who's involved in nurturing and family _as much_ as the woman, while _also_ being a provider. This is what most western women are already doing most of the time, there's a reason why one of the most popular discourse topics on the "woman sphere" is complaining about how men don't contribute enough to households, because they don't do anything regarding house chores and taking care of the kids, while women work full time and take care of all the rest. And this happens while also taking into account that most men want women to work, otherwise they are seen as "gold diggers", not to count that women have a right to work in order to protect themselves, in case their partner decides to ditch them eventually.