@lain THAT'S NOT IDENTITY THAT'S SOMETHING ON THE INSIDE
LIKE GOUT
IDENTITY IS WHAT SOCIAL CIRCLES YOU PARTICIPATE IN
LIKE YOU'RE THE CHILD OF YOUR PARENTS, A MEMBER OF YOUR CHURCH, YOU'RE A PIPEFITTER, YOU'RE LITHUANIAN, ETC ETC
YOU'RE NOT THE GOUTMAN
OR LIKE THE REACTIONARY MONARCHIST GUY
YOU JUST END UP BEING "PHIL'S FRIEND WHO DOES THE MONARCHY THING"