I think at least 90% of server administrations on the #fediverse can and should get along with each other. I think if some people learned to de-escalate or agree to disagree, or at least try to find a common ground before they go on #FediBlock, we could have a lot less drama.
Granted, I also think less than 10% of that over 90% of servers are generating at least 90% of that drama, and over 90% of the blocking that's going on is that less than 10% that we can't get along with.