@ACL9000 @Clapp @WilhelmIII @s2208 @Will2Power i have no real information on what it's like out there for dudes right now, but from what i've seen it's a nightmare if you are just a regular dude
online dating just seems like a bad idea from the jump
regular dudes will treat it like it's Call of Duty and take it seriously, but the chicks will treat it like it's DoorDash
your average woman is marinating in a stew of "i can have babies any time" and "all men will rape me", so cold approaches seem closer to navigating a minefield
i dunno
take up chess and go to chess club meetings and pick up an autistic chess chick? i got nothin