@inthehands as you might imagine, being a psychological interventionist, I worry a lot about where we do v do not have the right or the knowledge to intervene without harm. Eg, brave change in one context is certainly peer pressure and bullying in another context. Is the aim of reducing anxiety in a dangerous context the right aim? These are big and in some cases testable questions! I believe in increasing self-efficacy but shaming is effective social control, not effective empowerment :)