i have a lot of trauma to process and beef to cook with some people and certain ongoing cults on fedi but it has been nice to experience that the wider, often annoying but occasionally worthwhile liberal fedi doesn't give a shit about any of that and are all still here and growing, and the radical queer and assorted weirdo fedi who do give a shit about all that are much more fun and interesting people than the terf theyxab cult ever were