It is, it was very conflicting because that would be a super traumatic and humiliating situation but like wtf? I mean maybe it wasn't even her bf but her brother or something idk, but there was no way I could just be like oh excuse me etc, that could've turned out so terribly. There's no way he didn't notice it even if he was her brother or just a friend but it would also be super awkward to bring up ig? It really was terrible, I didn't even fully process it until now.