Another question to stimulate discussion:
If we take at face value that sexist and problematic behavior in FOSS is, at least partially, explained by a high incidence of neurodivergence in this community, and it's ableist to condemn behavior which is explainable by neurodivergence: is avoiding such criticism and censure on this basis putting the comfort of neurodivergent participants ahead of the comfort of women in our spaces, and if so, is that appropriate?