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Having a memory you cannot trust is deeply fucking scary.

I won't go into the decades of worry about that which resulted in the name I use here, but I understand the incredible, existential horror that results from realizing that others are holding you to account for something you do not have solid memory of having done.

And the mindsets that result, when you try to compensate for this when in a situation of threat and judgement rather than compassion.