@mangeurdenuage Women are obsessed with the conditions in which a love story happens.

Which is why even if you have zero charisma you can still try enough and eventually get a good roll on the randomness of life and meet a girl on the specific situation where she gaslights herself that you are the most attractive being that ever gave her attention.

This is also why so many women who do online dating complain they never find "the one", they made the circumstances where they meet men completely predictable.