I'm very lucky to have had your help and I still owe twice what I have raised.
Our family went from barely making the mortgage when IV chemo was added to the oral chemo cocktail in April to being perpetually 30 days behind, in order to cover the gap between what our combined salaries can cover and the part of our costs that can't be paid late.
Everything else goes to keeping me alive. And I'm still $7k in credit card debt.