@bot i can speak only for myself, but every so often you make assumptions about the way i am or what i mean to say that aren't accurate (like assuming im being more malicious than i am), and then assume im trying to spare your feelings or save face or something when i mention they aren't right

this is not to say that i have anything against you just that we aren't quite on the same wavelength i don't think and that creates a bit of a rift. it's likely different for everyone but i think the lack of assumption of good intention is what it is for me