theres Discourse rn on xitter abt public displays of affection and theyre abbreviating it PDA and, my reflex is like, woah theyve seriously never kissed or made out in public, why else would they be alienating this experience with language and talking abt it like its an assault on them. but that felt really mean to think, so i thought about it, but on reflection i think a lot of them seriously havent ever kissed or anything in public