@wgiwf @soravu These creatures are so beset by their own survival hinging on hiding how creepy they really are that they can't experience anything without also seeing themselves experiencing it through an imaginary hostile other's eyes, constantly checking to see if the mask's slipping.
We don't look creepy when we like attractive women – after all, everyone likes attractive women – but they do, because they are, and they assume everyone else must be foul to the core too.