@rauschma @molily Thanks for sharing this. I feel this way exactly about it, and now I have a bookmark in my back pocket to expand on my thoughts whenever I get caught in this struggle in the wild.
It's troubling that the good parts of frameworks get willfully ignored due to a mission to scold people for trying their best. People fail; it's systemic, we can't scold our way out of that. And most of the meanest jabs come from experts, who of course aren't having problems with the modern platform.