Whether a man coerced his wife into surgery or obstructed her, he's wrong in both scenarios. He can only passively support. You go girlfriend. "BUSTING OUT I dreamt of having big bust but my husband shot me down – so I DUMPED him, got a boob job & I’ve never been happier" https://www.thesun.co.uk/fabulous/29977895/dreamt-big-bust-husband-dumped-boob-job-happier/