We’ve raised generations of people to endure abuse and misery convinced that True Love makes it all OK. (How many rom-coms are basically stalker dramas? How many could easily end with a murder instead of a kiss??)
We’ve raised generations to believe everything will take care of itself if only they find the Right Person. (“Love means never having to say you’re sorry?!?” WTF?? Love means saying you’re sorry even when it’s not your fault, because the relationship is more important than your ego!)