Anyway this is the topic for one of the angriest things I ever wrote.
Tl;dr - it is never OK to issue unsolicited ‘corrections’ on how your partner looks. Ever. Columns like the one above feed into the idea that it is, but it’s really, absolutely not OK at all. It’s damaging and cruel.
https://www.girlonthenet.com/blog/my-body-dont-like-it-dont-fuck-it/