And as long as we're talking about what's fucking weird and creepy, listen:
Minding Your Own Fucking Business is the baseline. You can get a fair ways away from it before you get weird, but when someone starts to *obsess* on what everyone's got in their pants and who they like to fuck, they're getting real weird.
And conservatives and transphobes in many places have blown right past that into fucking RADIATING Peeping Tom energy.
These are genuine look-over-the-bathroom-stall-wall creeps.