If they hate you and they're in on the pogrom, you get hard and you fight. No emotional openings; just hostility and war. If they've bought the narrative, you get prosecutorial; you deconstruct it and demonstrate why it's false. If they don't care but object to the disruption, you have to trigger their humanity and demonstrate why your survival/wellbeing guarantee theirs. If they empathize from a different lived experience, you have to find common language.