@Shadowbroker2135 @pyrate @gnarley_boot @Waldbrand I’m in the same boat but I don’t feel guilty because with my level of unresolved childhood trauma there’s no way I wouldn’t end up abusing my kids somehow, even if only unintentionally.

I can hardly manage the responsibility of looking after myself, I cannot imagine having to be responsible for others who are completely dependent on me. Sadly, not having kids at this point seems to be the best I can do to reduce the amount of child abuse in the world.