My father isn’t a bad person. But he’s a complete narcissist committed to his carefully constructed narratives.
It’s exhausting. The sum total of our relationship has always been my choosing whether to accommodate or battle the self-centered prism through which he interacts with the world, then processing how it’s damaged me.
I’ve cut him off for years at a time. And I guess I’m saying this in case you need someone to tell you it’s okay to end ANY toxic relationship.
https://www.cosmopolitan.com/lifestyle/a44178122/family-estrangement-cut-off-parents/