@Dr_Ubertrout TBH, I've had so many "people related" traumatic experiences from getting to attached, platonically or romantically, that I now have major social anxiety and don't keep many people around me IRL.
However, when I did keep a lot of people around me, I had this issue constantly.
Though, I was always contemplating about whether it was because of being ignored in a crucial part of my life or something else like ADHD.