@ChadleyDudebro @SmidgePierce @BarelyEagle I mean, it's hard to tell in situations like that. Sometimes the "just trying to get my stuff" misses the part where YES he was TRYING to do that, but then they got into a verbal argument .. and then she stabbed him.

But the CRITICAL thing here is that much of this domestic violence is very reciprocal. The "psycho man who relentless beats his wife is extremely uncommon" but it is also matched with the monstrous wife who torments her meek husband.