Last RT, no the jalapeno thing pisses me off too.
Like if you don't like spicy food, don't order spicy food. Don't make the rest of us eat garbage de-spiced jalapenos just so you can brag about eating spicy food when you don't like it.
This makes me BIG fucking angry. Like for real.
https://www.dmagazine.com/food-drink/2023/05/why-jalapeno-peppers-less-spicy-blame-aggies/
I blame cracker suburbanites who shop at Whole Foods. I just do.