I'm not young. I know the answer involves a deep dive discussion into anxiety levels, autism spectrum, the impulse to conform to societal expectations and hierarchy, the eternal sunshine of the spotless mind, the serenity to accept the things we cannot change, etc etc.
But I suppose the childish part of me still wants myself and others to defy that because, well, look at it: It's not beautiful, it's nonsense bullshit.
The wise part of me wants that too.