One day, bf shared with him that it feels really inconsiderate to him when I'm late to meet with him (eg he comes to pick me up at 6 and I'm ready at 6:08). It hit me bc he really meant it sincerely, so I made an effort.
But one day he got mad that I "was late for our appointment" to meet in the living room to go to the grocery store *on vacation* and I said no. At some point the Dutchness has to stop. This is where I draw the line 😂