I would imagine a President needs to select people that understand many different government and policy areas and be able to evaluate a person’s abilities. I would imagine they need compassion and ethics. They don’t need to remember the name of their doctor during a high stakes public appearance, as funny or ironic as that may be.
I won’t be voting for Trump. Not because he is or isn’t disabled, but because he is unethical and cruel.
Your disabled friends are watching how you talk about this.