average adult American is 5’9 and 197. that’s kinda fat I think!

just being 5 9 and 185 made me attractive


but there’s a whole other dimension on the apps: women want status. they want to see you in a nice car. they want to see you in a suit. they want to see you at a wedding. they want to see you at a club. they want to see you with a graduate degree (at least) and a high status profession.

The best thing I did for myself vis a vis the apps is change ”mental health counseling student” to “shrink”