*deeper breath*
The amount of "I think logically without emotion" tone policing that goes on is absolutely outrageous. Especially when it's targeted at women and not all the people that fork every single OSS project at the slightest hint of disagreement
"Communication skills are useless" says person who just spent 12 days reading the documentation wrong because they feel less manly if they ask for help
"Irreplaceable" and loud toxic people suppress invaluable and quiet brilliance