@mynameistillian some user-friendly aimed linuxes i know of are MX (which i also use and recommend), mint, Pop, elementary, and ubuntu. there's also zorin about which i know nothing.
if you're from windows land, i'd suggest avoiding new(er) Gnome desktops (they're kinda desperate to emulate aspects of macOS, i find them incredibly hard to use). i have found xfce works well for my formerly windows-habituated brain (win 7-ish brain i guess), but maybe also MATE works in a similar way.
i guess it takes a bit of trial and error, using USB live versions of a few OSs to see if it clicks with your brain. hope it's an easy ride...