@coffeepine People have a real hard time believing me when I say "I do not care if you understand" because Americans say this a lot, but don't mean it. The thing is, I really don't. I don't use social media for the same reason most other people do.
And fwiw, I'm absolutely not being prickly with *you* or whatever, I know you know this by now. But folks are astounded when they find out it's not important to me at all if they understand the subtoots.