To take a slightly less heated issue than *gestures vaguely at the world* - I can simultaneously believe that women’s work is often undervalued and underpaid, while I also believe that men are often undervalued, ignored and discriminated against as parents. These two things can be simultaneously true. Believing that women’s health has been shamefully understudied can coexist with the belief that men should not have to tolerate being physically or emotionally abused by their partners.