@lucy well, first he picks me up in a white mini van, which is super sketchy because that isn't his car. There was a lot of awkward silence and you know I usually talk like a waterfall if necessary. He took me to a ice cream shop and was confused that it was closed (it's pouring rain). We waked to another that surprisingly was open but with no place to sit down, he paid for me and also did a lot of "ladies first" and comments like that. That could have just him trying to be polite, but he asked me what I want, I told him I don't know and he knew what he wanted jet he insisted I'd order my ice cream first because "ladies first"... That was followed by eating ice cream in the rain while walking around in circles in the still pouring rain. After that (we're still outside in the cold wet weather) he tried to find something else to do. After about half an hour we found a place to stand under and he tried to find something else to do. I tried avoiding agreeing to anything that would put me back in that creepy van that btw he didn't drive well either. In a 5min drive he almost had 2 small accidents. Anyway we started walking some more in the rain, briefly visited the local book shop. In that cute little shop he repeatedly kept asking me if I want to go somewhere else or if I'm getting bored. -10/10 bookstore experience, and I usually like going to the bookstore browsing through new and old books but if someone keeps bugging you from the side if you'd like to leave you don't really take your time to find something you like.
Finally we walked another circle through the town, this time with umbrellas and I decided to leave by bus. Because no way I'm getting in that van ever again in my life. He was singing along to songs he played from his phone in the van, which made the awkward silence even more awkward.