Call with mom went better than expected. She was mostly going off (justifiably) about how my brother's ex-wife continues to devastate her kids. The older two have (mostly) figured out her BS but the 15 year old is still very desperate for her love & approval. The only cringe part of our conversation was when mom talked about my cousin's daughter, who transitioned 4 years ago. She still deadnames them, uses old pronouns & can't comprehend how the bullying could be so bad she dropped out of school