When I was ~40, my mom got me a dress shirt for Xmas. At the time, I was wearing 100% cotton shirts in solid colors with button-down collars and I had expressly told her that on multiple occasions. This shirt that she got me, though, was 100% polyester, striped, and sported a flared collar. She did acknowledge it hit none of the criteria I had mentioned but she thought "it looked like" me. I disagreed but smiled and said thank you.