This seems like misdirection to me, whether intentional or not. The people most likely to exhibit this behavior aren't those who have ADHD or even autistic traits; rather, they're likely to be selfish and have a Machivellian sense of ethics, i.e. what applies to others must not apply to them. While I once read that hostility to criticism correlated with autism, my interpersonal experience has not shown this to be obvious.