@grudgecat @7 There's a lot of things that are usual on 'anything goes' social networks which devolve into rage machines. The Fediverse, however, was designed and built to a large extent by marginalised people wanting safe spaces for human flourishing.
As a result there are cultural norms you might not see in any instruction book it official guide (because there isn't one!) but which nevertheless make the Fedi what it is ?