0. Take care of things. Say “I got this.” Protect/provide/parent her. Always pay. Deal with bureaucracy. Don’t let another man talk to her outside of your earshot (At least.)

1. Give orders.
2. Be serious and firm with your words.
3. Use your strength.
4. Threaten discipline.
5. When she challenges you, smack her down verbally - this is a turn on for her. (See: threat of discipline.)
6. Talk dirty. Write dirty.
7. Use pet names, good and bad.
8. Objectify her body and body parts.
9. Seek to provide her with deep empathy in an intimate setting. Sex afterwards will forge a strong bond to you.