I don't understand why a lot of people is seeking a partner while not seeking success. Imagine being poor and then having to deal with the issues of other people. What if that person is violent with you?
Now imagine being wealthy and not fucking needing someone, well, you may have someone, or may not, but that won't be important.
I think what makes me happy is the power, in what sense? For example, if you ask me about being president of the country, I don't like the idea because politics fluctuate a lot. You can't be president for lifetime. Well, the important is that I don't like politics anyway. Money as power is right to me thought.
It makes me too depressive being powerless. In more practical terms and in the present moment I care about an ascendance in my job. I'm a government employee, I have no real power but I feel good when I make possible to achieve the application of the laws and normative. But, why this obsession with being a living rules book? I like the ultimate idea of serving efficiently the people.