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    Cecilia Mjausson Huster (mjausson@mastodon.design)'s status on Wednesday, 08-May-2024 09:56:08 JSTCecilia Mjausson HusterCecilia Mjausson Huster

    I wrote this as a response to a question about overcoming harsh, unjust self-criticism. It sums up a lot of my healing journey.

    The only thing I'd add, is that having the goal to "be over" something is wildly counter-productive. In fact, I now think it's doing the abusers' work for them.

    https://mastodon.design/@mjausson/111064584004257986 #recovery

    In conversationabout a year ago from mastodon.designpermalink

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      Cecilia Mjausson Huster (@mjausson@mastodon.design)
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      @vaurora@wandering.shop This was an interesting question, so I took some time to think about it. For me this was part and parcel of my ACA recovery. The ACA message can be summed up as "The solution is to become your own loving parent." Find out more here https://adultchildren.org/literature/solution/ One motto that helped a lot in my early days of recovery was "Don't do the abuser's work for them." That helped me see that criticizing myself for not knowing things I hadn't learned yet wasn't my job. 1/n
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