To recap something i wrote - i'm doing it again only different:
What makes rape such a despicable act, is NOT the violent nature, the overpowering, or violations of the woman...that's all BAD, but what makes rape TRULY UGLY and vile, all the way to a level of pure, fascinating, blatant ogreness, is the EXTREME LEVEL OF MEDIOCRITY OF THE ACT
There's absolutely NO ARTISTRY, NO CREATIVITY, NO INTELLECT - LIKE; if you rape a woman, as a man, you can never claim to be anything more than a FOOD-TUBE